I got caught up in the struggle of waivering in February and I am not doing it again.
If on Monday, she is unable to committ because she still wants more, then I am prepared to tell her to hit the road.
Why Monday and not today?
Because today, would be a show of my "control" whereas Monday it is a show of "what we need" to focus on a building relationship however slowly.
I proved that in the month of February that my "manning up" went to far to quickly and showed her sides of me that were ugly.
Have a good day all - not quite what I was looking for today.
You mean Monday as in Monday after her weekend. Bro, you expect those awesome new sexual feelings to subside by Monday the day after the weekend? Are you serious?
Those feelings she generates during this weekend won't quit until weeks or months if not longer til she can't handle it anymore and needs that again.
I feel sorry for you Mike, we tried to help you but you can't see it, or you're afraid to act and if you are, admit it, it's ok, no one on this forum hasn't had that fear - it is just fear though, it won't kill you and doing the right thing in spite of being afraid will be a growth experience for you as a man. Letting your wife go on this weekend without any consequences for her actions is the end of this marriage.
Good luck Mike. I will drop by from time to time to see how you're doing, I wish you well and hope it works out for you as you planned.
