Thanks Rob, your perspective is duly noted.

I got caught up in the struggle of waivering in February and I am not doing it again.

If on Monday, she is unable to committ because she still wants more, then I am prepared to tell her to hit the road.

Why Monday and not today?

Because today, would be a show of my "control" whereas Monday it is a show of "what we need" to focus on a building relationship however slowly.

I proved that in the month of February that my "manning up" went to far to quickly and showed her sides of me that were ugly.

Have a good day all - not quite what I was looking for today.