I know how you feel. The question was just entering my brain as H was talking to me this morning.
Am I giving him power by letting him get all his words out and me just sitting here taking it?
I couldn't have retaliated, if I wanted to, since I'm at work...
R talk is pointless. Use my H as a "WHAT NOT TO DO" example.
Yesterday, I found a note I wrote to him well over a year ago on his dresser. I read it and it deeply saddened me that absolutely nothing had changed. nothing except me being a stronger person, and my reaction to his schtuff....
dunno... I hope that's not the case for you. I hope that things will progress quickly in the best way for you.
It's just weird that all this happened today at the exact time you were all typing about the same subject. Coincidence? I think not.