Dear CL, long time since I posted to you. I was never able to understand your situation or you as a person or the one revealed on this bb. I have never felt any emotion from yu just a perseverance, but this is so odd I had to comment on,
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I was at my ballroom venue last night, and a lady asked if the lady I was with was my W. I thought the question was a bit forward, but I found myself reluctant to admit that it was. I kept silent, and she revised the question to ask if it was a significant other, to which I reluctantly shook my head yes. My R with my W is becoming more public in the dance community.
How on earth is that question forward??? it is such a common question. and for the life of me I cannot see why you couldn,t have said yes and then added whatever you felt comfortable with or not. Is she your wife OR your SO ? Have you ever considered that you and your wife are just not right for each other. Have you ever felt love and complete joy in each others company,a freedom to be who you are.