THAT is a much better idea than the apartment.

I think if you get an apartment he will run off and file.

I wouldn't do anything to lean him that way right now, he needs nudges in YOUR direction, not the other way.

His hesitation in filing is that he's not sure if its the right thing to do... he has a conscience. SOmeone just needs to keep on him and tell him how hurtful what he's donig is.. and KEEP TELLING him.. NOT you though, you rest!

It is possible that OW HAS GOTTEN annoyign enought that he"s having his doubts now... the longer he waits to file the more annoying she gets and the more reality starts to dawn on him