Was - Marriage Downgraded to Best Friends 2/5/2010

[Eunicetiger]

That's 2 problems right there. You are waiting till after the trip then giving her another 30 days. She is running the show right now and running all over you. She will string this along as long as she is with OM. Why would she stop? She has her fun with him, then when she wants the comfort of security, she goes to you. Take away the security and let her see what is life without it. If she chooses the fling, you can't control that. But you can control your manhood and your sanity.

And correct me if I'm wrong, cause I don't understand the whole rationale behind swinging.....but if you're swingers, doesn't that mean you are both unfaithful to your spouse at the time of participation???? That's kinda why it leads to what is going on now. And at some point, it's gotta suck that another man is inside your wife.