We have been swingers in the past - which led to my indiscretions 10 years ago.
We were good with it 10 years ago as our relationship was strong.
Times have changed however and I don't find it appropriate.
If she comes back from the weekend and says she cannot break it off and focus on building our relationship, I will ask that she make other living arrangements in 30 days as I do not deserve to provide for a wife who has fully checked out of our marriage.