Is it possible that he is thinking you were trying to tell him that he's such a screw up that he has to do it the right way, and that since he can't (at least not in the short term) that he should let you move on?
of course it's POSSIBLE that he would think that, i'm not inside his head...but i feel like i have communicated to him on several occasions that i want to at least try to make things work. i told him i was confused as to how one week he'd asked me about seeing a counselor and the next he asked me about legalizing our separation. in my response to him saying all of those things about it being beyond repair and all that...i said, that's like standing at the bottom of a mountain and saying, i don't think i can climb this. because you never know what you're capable of until you try it.
yesterday was the first day i had zero communication with him in about a month. it was a long, hard day. but much needed.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
