I am confused.....please do not take my comments the wrong way either....

first of all you are okay with sharing your W with another man? saving your releationship means she gets to go have a sex filled week-end with OM?

"lets go slow" means she wants to see what OM has to offer and keep you on the back burner just in case.

my opinion if you want to save releationship - Affair needs to end....period.

M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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