Can you talk to your H about the L and try to come up with an acceptable settlement for both of you im sure you may have already done this but I wasnt sure Yes the L will try to rack up fees unfotunately and at 350 an hr or more the fees add up fast but it did help my situatyion when I talked things thru with H there was fighting hanging up ect but eventually we signed and if we had not discussed it at length with all the fighting in betweeen hangups, im not sure if the L would ahve come to an agreement His L would always twist words and take off important matters in the papers and it weas unacceptable peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow