been awhile waiting to see what he does. I did make a call a few weeks after the last post. His response was to cut me off and stay firm that he thinks it should be done. When asked about filing for D, he said he hadn't and later called to say he thinks we should do this jointly. He refuses to do it alone then went on to bring up things from the past.
my response is that I don't want to D but won't fight it if he does. I also reminded him that this isn't a joint decision.
Any suggestions on how to move things forward? Therapist though that if I agreed to go through the motions of giving him what he wants that he probably won't follow through. MC thinks he is just trying to control the situation and if I make this gesture I will be giving him the control he needs to work through this. Sounds mixed up to me?
