She can't walk in the path of Christ while not living at home with her husband and having thoughts of another man. JC isn't going to "suddenly" make things clearer for her just because she's baptized. She's learned what's right and wrong. She KNOWS what's right and wrong. She's just choosing wrong over right.
No amount of praying, cleansing, etc. is going to change that until she believes and understands that she's wrong.
She knows she's wrong and a "sinner" (her words).
The only thing I can get from this whole deal is that she feels she can't break the affair and needs God's help. She feels she needs to commit to Him in order to ask Him for help. That's why she's getting baptized. Other than mentioning the affair, she has said this in her own words - that she needs God's guidance and feels she needs to give herself to Him in order to get it.
The other side of this is that she wants to turn over a new leaf AFTER dumping her family, which given her state of mind and repeated comments about not coming back is a real possibility.
Like I mentioned, I'm going to stay out of the battle in her mind and conscience. That's God's realm and I don't want to be hosing up anything He's trying to do.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
