A chat gave me the idea to look at DBing H from a Myers Briggs POV. He's an INTJ - I think.
Quote:
Rational men want to be respected for:

* Providing freedom and treating their mates as rational adults
* Their expertise in their field(s) of interest
* Their ability to see long-term implications others can't and to respond to avoid negative consequences
* Their ability to deal with things in a logical, rational manner without being swayed by inappropriate emotion
* Their deep thinking and ability to analyze things from all angles
* Protecting their families from evil systems of thought


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.