MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Thanks FM! I will try and find happy_again's thread!

I think I am to the point where I could invite H and be ok if he said no...I don't like like saying that but that is where I am at!

I just don't know what is best. He has filed a D. It is only a piece of paper...he is still loved by his family...and he would be welcome here or even at DIL's parents...

Also, this weekend, H's nephew gets his Eagle Scout. We are invited, H got a seperate invite. SIL has reserved rooms and really wants us to come. Am sure H won't as he will have to work at midnight Sunday. I am thankful that H's family still wants me around and am truly thinking of heading over that way (4 hrs) after the honor band thing but it will feel weird going to H's family function without him!