Tell him you're sorry he got that impression that you think those things, but you don't and never have and that neither of you can mindread.
Ask him how many times he would like to see you a week and offer to get out your datebook. Make him own some of the solutions to these complaints and you will find out whether the complaints shift to something else and he refuses to try to solve any of them. If so, then it's WAS or depression script, I guess.
Good night. Here's your virtual sushi rolls: @@@@@
