It could be depression. Or it could be guilt and sadness about an A that hasn't worked out. Very tricky. Have you read the DR chapter on depression? Also read about male depression...men tend to externalize their depression and blame it on others. hugs 8, that is confusing.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.