Being in a spot where my hubby was done and now we are reconciled/ reconciling?
There is this small part of me that wonders is he back b/c he has to, b/c he loves our children or is he back for me.
I will ask him that and he reassures me (no A ever occurred in our sitch). It still is a nagging frustration that is definitely going away.

But I can see why the reassurance is important. You want something that is genuine and real. Not necessary. Does that make sense?

I want my hubby to be here because he wants to be with me, not because he sees no other alternative...


As for sex, have you ever paraded naked around him? Crazy I know, but does he notice? Jumped in the shower with him? Ever just plant a kiss on him and just grab him you know where? Is this too bold for you?

I mean have you ever aggressively initiated?

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)