If she does not agree to a legal separation, can I counter with this suggestion via a lawyer? I know it's subject to the state, but I'm wondering if this is an option that would likely be considered by a judge. My understanding in my state, it's very family-friendly ... non-dower state. Joint physical custody is pretty much the default unless there's extenuating circumstances.
We've been separated 2 months. She filed 3/5, and I have not received the papers yet.
