You guys are so smart. I have come to realize over the last many months that I am not the cause and that the OW really is just a symptom... I'm really hoping that she moves soon and I've had panic attacks that she isn't moving. Oh, I hope that isn't true. Regardless the relationship most likely won't last (I hope).
Well, I am going to try and talk to my DB coach again this week or next. Maybe see what he thinks about detaching more or what I should do. I really felt like the H wants me to tell him what to do and that he knows what he is doing is wrong....but I could be wrong about what he was thinking. I just need to be more patient....
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
