Thanks jasper, I'm cool like an icebox - no anger, no controlling...

However, I do not want to sit idly by while w has EA or PA with OM. I'm sharing all I can to get all the insight from all the fine ppl here.

I've read DB and DR and have 'Not Just Friends' on its way here in overnight post.

One thing I keep reading here is that with solid intel 'outing' is the way to go to help put an end to EA. Not so?

M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation