sorry to hear, that happened to me too...then wedding pics came down, then single, then in R w/ OM...this won't nec happen to you.
Keep whatever intel you have to yourself...choose allies carefully... One thing I lerned from my sitch is have home be as stress free as possible...I was gaslighted and made a fool at my home by being too emptional and confrontational...I'll re-rad your sitch but what happened to me is W rallied her friends first, copped feelings for Om1, dropped the bomb on me, then watched me FREAK OUT...while she claimed to be "working in things"- she lied, lied, lied- the more I confronted, the more she denied, the more she told her friends and mother that I was stresseing her out and is crazy- then the more they told her to leave...
I had the pleasure of knowing that as W moved out, OM helped she and MIL move in to their new place...I am a leper- I am the culprit- W comes out looking and smelling like roses- and her friends dance around her!!!
So- don't do what I did- expect to be lied to and gaslighted- do not feed into it...
You're in good hands here, and as long as W is at your place, you stand a really good chance...just remember if you get heated, she'll use it against you to justify her cause to EVERYONE- regardless of her one sided story.
