rr22,

This is a very valuable conversation!

I feel that I have been on the right track in the validating department (well, not with this NC in effect), but I have gained much better insight into it now.

This and all of the 'gentling' & listening skills that I have been working on have already made me feel much changed & much stronger.

Thank you!

SH

Me 42
H39
M 10 years, T 12.75 years
MLC began spring 2009
ILYBNILWY 1/18/10
WAS 2/5/10
EA revealed 3/6/10
EA ended (by her) 3/7/10
M - DOA...but working on getting disentangled.