Ok, so after running into X's former assistant (still works with him but not for him) yesterday, today I met a guy at my work who works about 20 feet down the hall who's really good friends with X, running buddies, hang out a couple times a week, etc. When I told him who I was he said Oh, turned greenish, and then said Oh, it's not that (what does that mean?), & looked really surprised. I guess he's heard stories about me being the wicked witch or something. Ha! He's only known him 2 or 3 years so we hadn't met each other before. So I'm feeling like I can't get away from X!
So I went jogging tonight. Good move--it really helped to be out working out, running with my dog, and seeing the horses in my country neighborhood, really pretty weather. I got a nice email from Roger from here; so that really cheered me up too!
X sent me another nastygram. He was saying he's going to take D10 to speech therapy starting next month. She just started going 2x a week at her school, so I told him I don't think she needs 3x a week. Then he was asking me for the tenth time (or more) about when I would start paying the copays (let's see I paid about $2000 last year and he's paid about $50 this year--hmmm). I told him the judge's ruling about financial stuff should be in any minute if not already, so pointless to worry about that now. I also need to start saving hopefully money for summer camp and daycare for D10 although I didn't tell him that....
I've been emailing my eharmony guy for the last week or so every day. What's the next step with that? Meeting for coffee or something??my first experience with online dating you know!
