Well...didn't go so well. I got bombarded with texts and emails. H and mother are fighting...my MIL didn't like the way my H was acting or treating me when I went to her house for dinner. My H has been acting this way for months..so to me- pretty normal..actually better than normal.
I called my MIL to find out what was going on- she told me that H was out of line on a bunch of emails he sent to her..and she couldn't help herself. She didn't like the way he was behaving..and the way he was treating me..and needed to say something...besides the fact that she hates the way H is speaking to her. She said "This isn't the son that I raised".."he keeps getting worse everyday".
My H doesn't know I talk to his family as much as I do. I got another email from my H asking why I wasn't responding..so I simply responded "I didn't know your mother felt that way..I haven't spoken to her."...this followed with a bunch of schizophrenic emails.
First one 1)nowhere in my email to you did I ask you how my mother felt. 2)I just got into a fight with her and I have told her to speak with me only through either you or SIL. 3)why is it that I can not get a timely response from you to emails or text messages?
Followed by:
"I have now asked you 4 questions without the courtesy of a timely response to any of them"
I responded: "what is going on?"
He responded: "I will tell you what is going on. I am sure the feeling is mutual but I have about had it with all of you. figure it out amongst yourselves."
...OK..conversation over.
I love my H family to death..I am glad that they are seeing the man that I have seen for the past few months..but kind of saddened that he is speaking to them nastily too..(I didn't see the emails that he sent to MIL) Apparently he was taking shots at his mother over politics..not in a nice manner. I told my MIL to not get into an argument with her son over me. I am fine. He is just so combative...and has been.
Bright side..I guess he was half *ss attempting to be nice to me in the first place..probably looking for an ally as he fights with everyone else that he cares about. Ironically..I don't really care today..again. Let him fight with himself...or his family. I am not really in the mood..and not even faking it. Let him fight with himself..or anyone else he can bait...better someone else than me.
