I'm just digesting, I think. Feeling a bit hopeless. So I hurt her feelings, I got that yesterday from her look! I can't take back everything I say, well worded or not. But the intention. Doesn't that count for anything?
In a nutshell: a) unless I am completely sexually attracted, she wants a D b) if I make any comment that makes her feel less attractive than any other, she's asked for a separation c) if I disagree with her on a major part of child care/homecare or any other thing she identifies with, she thinks I am too controlling to stay with
Yes, I am now in love with her. Yes, that love has brought a lot more attraction for me, but she isn't 100% my "type", yet she wants me to be (not say) I'm 100% in tune with her.
On top of that, we are having so many miscommunications.
I feel beaten. The advice I give myself matches what I've heard - love her fully, get the D off the table, not do anything to forward a D or separation, etc.
