Eating isn't a problem in fact I have to watch the opposite. I'm normally quite healthy but stress tends to lead to bigger meals for me. Good catch so I'll watch that.
Allen I've got a list of symptoms in my mind over the last week or so but not sure how to read most of them. W did call d tonight. I took her out after school to an indoor play area and saw her number on my cell which I then switched off. Once we got home she called from the hotel but I didn't speak to her. So symptoms;
1. She usually talks to me after d didn't tonight 2. She was nicer than usual this past weekend, I didn't say much to her but she kept my d quiet while I slept in and rubbed my shoulders briefly (10 sec) 3. Sunday took her car when she usually takes the train but as she walked out she says 'I'm getting a ride' 4. Saturday after I put my d to bed and changed she says I'm going out, since you aren't (lately I've been GAL)
There are lots more from the past 7 months so let me know what else will help.
As an aside I had my first IC session today and I was not happy. When this first happened I went to IC and worked through some control issues. I swear this guy had the notes (both through the company). He would not stop asking me about the circle of me questioning w. I had to tell him - I haven't asked her a single thing about her life in 6 months - is that controlling?
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation