I like the Black Eyed Peas, but Fergie was my lesser known nickname in high school.
Well, I have made one of my first DR goals! I have three baby step goals I announced in C. 1) That she call me every 2-3 days. 2) that we make future plans together and 3) that she move back in by July (that one I didn't share with her).
She called me. And WOW! Was it UNCOMFORTABLE! Is this what I should expect? I was upbeat and kept the conversation off our R. I also put her in charge of couples C. I figure that if we have different goals (she wants D, I want to save the M), there is little to be gained from couples C.
I get the feeling the convo was much more uncomfortable for her. That worries me because she is the type to just drop anything hard. It would be easier in her mind to D than to have to work on our M.
She also asked about the cats. That is the first time she mentioned them since moving out.
She said she is going furniture shopping which hurts since every step she makes towards making her living arrangement permanent bothers me and since she had such a low interest in decorating our own home.
