UPDATED PLAN (V3)

Friday 26 March

1. Secure finances.
2. Expose to OM W and OM W sister. Full evidence, offer to stay in touch by email. for more. (She'll get her by 11 her breakfast her time zone or as soon as the sister arrives to her office)
3. Wait.

Friday afternoon or Saturday Morning (hopefully)

(phone has been cancelled)

4. Wife calls me and lets me have it. I reply cool, calm, and hang up.*
5. Expose family. Father, Mother, sister, cousins**
6. Go dark ****


Questions.
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* How can I make sure my W is "safe". Not hurt herself, etc when I'm going dark.

** Waiting for W to call changes the sequence. Is exposing the family last then? Not sure. W could have already played "victim" with them.

*** Should I then consider I lost whatever I left in the apartment? Anyway I could get something back? e.g. making an excuse and go there before friday.

**** forever?


Thanks.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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