4luv,
I think you have been posting for many months, right? Wasn't he the man that was actually teasing you about cheating on you? Is my memory correct?

IF I am, Allen, I think you should read back much further on her old thread. I think, IMO, he has been emotionally abusive and pretty mean. Planning Thanksgiving as a family and then leaving for days with no word to you and then being snippy on the phone. While you had canceled plans to visit your family b/c he had wanted Thanksgiving together. Other nonsense like that.

Do I have this, correct?

Allen, if you have time, can you read back much further than 2 months? I think you may have some different views on things, maybe...

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)