Gosh, she doesn't sound like a heck of a lot of fun to be around!!
So, what do you do to stay active? And, do you have a career, as well? Or, is she more the career-oriented one?
You said she wasn't a size 6 when you married, but has she put on significant weight since you married?
No kids, have to ask... fertility issues, or mutually agreed upon lack of desire for kids?
OK...
In answer to your questions:
#1 - I'm not a great decorator, and my H actually has a better eye. We do it together. It is INCREDIBLY odd that she doesn't desire anything done, not that she's not doing it herself. For crying out loud, hire a decorator!
#2 - Do you have a wedding album? We don't have wedding pics up, but I procrastinated getting them printed, and now it just never happened! Ooops! (We have an album, though!)
#3 - NOT NORMAL - VERY NOT NORMAL She can't be female, and have a lost gem somewhere in the house and not turning the place upside down!
Hang in there... we're with you.
PS - I'd tell her to get off her rear, and contribute to the household at the very least (if she were still there).
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
