Hi Talia, I totally understand it is really hard. My D should be finalised in about 7 weeks and I am dreading it. A friend told me to look at it as a fresh start. I do believe also that if it was meant to be maybe your H and you will get back together after some time. People do remarry.

I totally agree let him do all the work, dont make it easy for him and look after you. I have to issue a court order to my H this week. As much as I am not looking forward to it it is what I need to do.

I read somewhere that if you have to D (even if you dont want it) try to get the best D ever.


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