You and S5 could get a hotel near the beach and not have to worry about going anywhere else. It seems our Ex's are good at aiding us in looking foolish. Why did you give him the entire refund?

We might see snow reports in hell before I win my WAS back and I really have no intentions of winning her back. Too much lying, betrayal, and intercourse between W and OM has happened for me to want her back. JC would have to make a miracle happen for it to work out between us. Plus, she has made it clear that she does not want me back EVER.

"So remember that all of this crap we are dealing with is a temporary setback . We have to go through all of this to get to something really amazing and for us to realize what we really have Is amazing."

That was in an e-mail that I saw a few weeks ago from W to OM.

Probably wrong for me to post that here but oh well. "All of this crap we are dealing with" - I guess that would be the way she refers to the dissolution of our marriage (and I suppose the S or D that OM is supposedly going through with his W). She goes on to tell him how much she adores him and how fortunate she feels that they have met.

It's kinda funny though because he doesn't seem to reciprocate with as much passion and enthusiasm as she does. Maybe that's just not his style or maybe he's just not as into her as she is for him (that's what the ornery side of me wants to think anyhow). My dad loves to say, "if they are willing to cheat with you then they are willing to cheat on you..."


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10