So let me get this straight. She wants to D you, yet you have sex. What's up with that? She sounds like a guy.
When my W said she was done 2 years ago, that's pretty much when our sex life died too.
I think she has an emotional attachment to you still. It's just that her mind is telling her to leave. It doesn't seem like her actions are matching her words.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.