How do I expose the affair

[flowmom]

mb28, I beg you to see a L. You don't have to tell anyone, but you need some basic information, especially if your H wants to take your children from you. Your actions or inactions may have consequences that you regret later. You're going through a difficult crisis and I know it's hard to take action on things like this, but it is part of protecting yourself.

I've witnessed the process of recovering from a suicide attempt. It doesn't happen overnight. You need to be very gentle with yourself and set boundaries with people who have different agendas than you. For example, going to that class last night wasn't really about your wellness...and it sounds like it may have been depressing.

You've seen that affair-busting can turn into an unhealthy obsession for you. Perhaps you could start a new thread in the Newcomers forum to encourage input from more folks who can support you in your journey towards wellness? In that thread you could also let people know how they can support you.

(((mb)))