good job on listing your three things. why don't you start expanding on those things. how are those things making you feel better? what is your passion? what activities are you doing to embrace those passions. they could be previous passions from before the marriage, or maybe new ones.

something other than just a list of 3 things. (which is a very very good thing, just trying to bump you up a notch)

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."