I've been reading your sitch here and there and I forgot if you still lived with your W or not.
If you do, make the most of it. In my sitch, I think we needed the physical distance apart so she could go through her thinking on her own. That's the part that's the hardest. Leaving up to them.
So detachment helped me to get over that loss of connection with her but now that I want to re-establish a little of it, I'm finding that the resentment and anger that I had stopped feeling are bubbling up to the surface now and then.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.