No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Coach,

Thanks for the suggestion. Now how can I go about doing that? Most of our interactions have been from me inviting her or doing something.

I would love for her to be a little more proactive. My W, as a whole, moves at a snail's pace when doing things unless it's something she really wants.

I think I need suggestions on how I can start putting the ball in her court. One thing I did was that I told her that since our D was on Spring Break, I could take Thursday off since she's off that day as well and we could do something together if she wanted to. So I left the ball in her court. I'm pretty sure she will do it, but I'm getting a little tired of doing it each time.

She hasn't mentioned D in a long time. And in our conversation over the weekend, she told me about how she went with her sister to look at Open Houses (just for the sister) and how they all looked like dives compared to our house. It was weird because she criticized our house and devalued it in her mind when she wanted out.

So her "thinking" is slowly changing. Now I'd like to see if those thoughts can be changed in to actions.