My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

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He did open up some, but he is still involved with the OW I believe. We really cannot make it work or have serious talks until she is out of the picture.

The h still believes that he is all used up and that he can't give me anything more...I could go on and on with his different excuses. I just don't know what more to do. I feel helpless and I think he feels as helpless too. He is so lost that he really does think D would maybe/maybe not solve his problems. He is litterally sitting on a fence trying to decide which side to jump to. I can't tell if it upsets him that I told him I would be fine with or without him. Hard to tell what he thought, he just chuckled a little. I really want to call up this OW and let her know what she is doing, I think she really has no clue....but then I changed my mind. Probably not a good idea.

Part of me thinks he wants me to fight for him and get mad at him and make him prove that he can be a better husband...but I'm not sure. I get alot of different feelings from him and I just can't take what he says as truth yet.

Ahhhhh!