Possible EA - sitting on the edge

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Sorry for the confusion, I meant what if it isn't an EA or PA. The bigger question is how to be sure but I guess the intel will help me figure that out. Just to continue gathering data I called the hotel my w stays at when traveling. Good news she was registered, good news OM wasn't, bad news...doesn't mean they aren't together. Didn't hear a peep from her in two days though (usually calls to speak with D). The question was more about strategies and tactics but I guess I have time to figure that out. I do really appreciate all the help and advice. I plan on doing what it takes to get this right for us or if not us then me and d. It was tough to concentrate at work today though...kept on thinking about 'what ifs' and how a week seems like a life time to find out what is up but really I've been in this since 08/09. In any event anymore thoughts or advice on further intel ideas or anything are appreciated.