Be nice to them, apply no pressure, talk NOT of the old relationship = they will be nice to you.
Which of course we immediately interpret as some crazy kind of "baby step" back towards us.
Good God, we are such morons sometimes.
Get in touch with FIB, he can tell you lots and lots about orders of protection and the like.
Keep this in mind - she probably pressed you because you pressed her. YOU are the one who threatened to call people. So she threatened back.
You better get smart and you better get smart in a hurry Eric. I don't know if your problem is that whole hispanic male "I gotta have my respect" deal or what, but you've consistently allowed your emotions to open your mouth and fill it with stuff that eventually gets you in trouble. Well my friend, the stakes right now are these:
lose custody of kids, except for supervised visits pay child support through the rectal cavity pay alimony through the rectal cavity give her your home assume all marital debt
Yeah, possibly that bad.
Screw the "find your nuts" talk. You need the "find your brains" talk.
I hope I've pissed you off. I hope I've pissed you off enough to make you really STOP AND THINK about the stupid [censored] you've been doing.
Damn....
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
