You will really know where you stand with people! And who your "real" friends are.
How can you be the bad guy asking for support of your marriage?
"Doesn't that help to validate the A to the affair partners?" They will twist everything to their own perspective anyway. I don't believe most affairs can survive the light of day. Whatever that light is.
Because it will cause some turmoil, it is important for the BS to get out of the way. This is a good time to go dark. At least while it hits the fan.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
