new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

[cesco]

Sunday now comes.
Get up, things were good at the start then wheels fell off. I of course was encouraged by the postive moments of the day before that I tried to talk to her a bit on us. We were in the my garage and we chatted a bit and she came to me to hug me. I asked her, was that a pitty hug or a hug that you meant.
She said a bit of both... Funny, I said..
Its so hard to detach.

We discussed banking and the financial stuff. What to do.
She then shows me the spread sheet she created on how to split the bills. I was devestated. I was pushing for this becasue I thought this would scare her and rock her world a bit.
Nope... not the way I thought.
She said what do you think, I told her that I have to review this a bit and I would let her know.
The rest of the day was sour.

I am going to fast forward to the night.
Friends call. My buddy and his wife want to come over.
My buddy knows a bit whats going on, but not his w and my W doenst know I have told him anything. It was great. We got along fine.
They leave, I tell my W, " now that was nice" she agreed. I tell her that we can have all that. The frieds etc. I know its pursuing. I tell her that its her decision.

This is the kicker for me. W tells me that she has been thinking of alot of things. Alot of the stuff I say she tells me that I am right. I applaude that statment, but she tells me right away that she will not elaborate on what she means.
I feel like she is 2 different people.
Earlier on in the conversation I questioned her about the OM from work. She denies everything and her story is consistant.
I check FB, her person page, email, and blackberry. I cannot find anything. She is too smart and deletes everything I am sure.

Ok, so beleive it or not, our conversation ended really good and we went to bed together. Of course, her on her side and me on mine.
Here is something I cant get my head around. Why is it that somedays she will kiss me before she goes to work, and somedays no. WTF...
I know there is lots of info here and probably confused some of you. I guess I should post more often so that the situation is more current.