i know there's no rush...and i know he's confused. i think going dark for a few days would be good for both of us.

OTM, i did ask him last night on the phone. his response was that he he wasn't sure but that he felt it was unfair for me to be waiting on the sidelines until he worked through some issues with his counselor. i said, we have to wait 6 months anyway...no real response to that.

i'm very ready for this to get easier.

Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless