new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

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I have continued to read everyones thread but not posted much. Here is my update.

In the past couple of weeks there have been some really good moments where I feel she is breaking, then moments where I feel its just over.
I am much more confident ( not being a wussy, per Robx) no tears etc when speaking to W.
I am much more direct, confident and very calm when I speak to W.
I have really stayed away from the R talk. But, like all of us its a very difficult road to travel. I am a very oppinionated guy, and I speak my mind.

This past weekend she was not so great, but ends up ok.

I will explain.
Saturday I get up to go to work early. Earlier then ever before. I didnt make breakfast for the kids or anything. I just said, gotta go, see ya. Didnt tell her what time I would be back etc.
No communication from her all day, and I dont call either.
I get back around 2 and just my boys are home.
I told them that later on I was going to see my nephew play hockey and if they wanted to come.. They both said yes.
W calls home about 10 minutes later. I answer told her the plan.
She was upset because she knew I was not going to be home, and she had planned a movie night with all the kids.
I told her, not sure why you are upset, we are just going to see a hockey game.
She indicated that she felt I was taking my daughter too and that she would be alone. That wasnt the plan.

Myself and the 2 boys left. The whole time I didnt understand why she got so upset. I sent her a message ( I know wrong) saying, look, we are just going to hockey and didnt realize you had plans. She said fine, just to drop it.

I dont hear from her at all. At 9 pm, she sends me a message to tell me that she and my D are home. Not to worry all is good.
I dont understand that, she never does that.
I replied, thankyou for letting me know. She replies, your very welcome. Now, I know she is playing me..
We sent a few messages back and forth.
One of my comments to her was that she was funny in her text, and she is not so stiff today. I told her that I usually have the "stiff one" ..
Her response.. " I am not going to touch that one.
Now, am I reading to much into this. I have tried numberous times to say small sexual gestures and they are usually ignored.
Not this time.

I came home at 11:30 or so. She slept with D and I said.. AWESOME... the whole bed to myself..