Yes, I agree. Give him something to remember Saturday night. If you can hack it, I would suggest treating him well Saturday evening and acting confident. Not only for him, but prove it to yourself too. Nothing wrong with mentioning that you are a little anxious, but add that you can handle it.

Hang in there,
-T


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1