OK here's what I'm seriously planning to say. I want her to see that things won't always be as rosy in the future:

You finally want to take a vacation! good for you! Though I feel DD's too little to be away from either one of us for 2 weeks.

The ride sounds fun, have a good time.

Thanks for letting me know about Don.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again