I went ahead and asked my husband to take over our finances and he agreed. However, now he is complaining that I am "making" him do this and he doesn't want to do it and I'm just throwing it at him.
I complied a spreadsheet and notes on everything and we sat down for about an hour and he seemed fine and now all he is doing is complaining that he doesn't know where anything is or how to do it.
I realized that the finances probably were a big stress for me and that is why I asked him to take over. In exchange he asked me to do the laundry and dishes and I agreed.
How should I handle this? He is making me feel bad, like I am forcing him to do it. Should I take it back