Her email today (we haven't really talked,txted,emailed other than strictly DD):


can I go visit home (back east) with DD for a couple weeks? I was thinking of the last week of April and first week of May if that's ok with you.

I am going to be gone the weekend of April 23-25 (leaving fri 23 coming back sun 25) going to San Luis Obispo for a 100 mile bike ride. I was thinking of leaving the tues/wed after that. Jet blue is having a good sale for today and tomorrow only so if you can let me know that would be great.

Also, Don, the owner of the DD's school died this weekend. He had been fighting cancer. There was a note yesterday when I went to pick up DD.


Whenever I asked her to plan a vacation for us since she wasn't working she said she didn't want to take a vacation. Now all of a sudden she wants to go and take DD with her for 2 weeks? I don't want her to take DD but I really can't say no. She did this last time too. Maybe she'll cheat on me too like the last time she left.

100mi bike ride? what is she? a pro bike rider all of a sudden? whatever. Maybe she should bike ride to the east coast.

Intersting also is how she only asks me if it's DD related but tells me of her decisions when it comes to her. And how exactly is she planning on paying for all this? She goes into debt and then expects me to help payoff her debt.

I was thinking of replying:

Absolutely. You finally want to take a vacation! yay for you!

Goodluck on the ride.

I hope his family didn't desert him while he was suffering from his ailment and died a happy man.

BTW, I've booked tickets to take DD to Europe in May for 4 weeks, if that's ok with you? Please let me know by tonight so I can cancel for a refund.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again