Sounds like it is hitting her hard from her email. Let it simmer in her mind. But do not give her anything for her to be fearfull of. Be the rock. Stable, strong, independant and detached from her.
Your response could not have been better IMHO.
Deal with the issues when you are ready and stay out of her way as others have suggested.
That is one thing I could never do and is probably why Im divorced now.
Good luck tbart.
Last edited by g450; 03/23/1006:06 PM. Reason: speelin
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me