Yup you are right 4luv, you are doing everything right.
If he doen'st man up after this then you know you can't rely on him.
Qustion.. what about child suport, is he offering anything there at all?
Is this just voluntary or has a court assigned him a specific number?
I am wondering if him having to pay for child support and spoussal support for a family he doesn't see might wake him up at all... but right now he is telling you not to rely on him... I am not saying give up, but I am saying focus on the rest of your life for the moment.
It may take him six months to wake up.. we don't want YOU holding your breath for six months and stressing yourself out.
